Attending the Teachers Forum on Integrating Gender and Film in Lesson Plans was not only an opportunity to watch an outstanding movie, "Boses" by Direk Ellen Ongkeko-Marfil but a wake-up call to all whose awareness sits in the wildnerness on gender sensitivity and alarming child abuse in the country. The movie was intricate in detail how it teaches the thinking and the ignorant Filipino on how music or any other forms of expression can save a soul battered with violence and societal cancers. The screenplay was also outstanding in presenting scenes vivid to elaborate the logical symbols and characters that make the story more effective in making my eyeshadow totally destroyed after watching it. I applaud Direk Ellen Ongkeko-Marfil for the wonderful intelligent ending being hopeful of the character of a batterer in Ricky Davao (Marcelo in the movie). In what I've read and in most stories especially the ones told by my battered sister, the batterer remains a batterer all his life and rehabilitation of the battered and the batterer usually showed no sign of remarkable progress. The violent father was usually a battered child and the passing of the torch to become the same is because of the breeding and the changes were seldom reported in the concerned agencies like DSWD or either ignored by the majority as it has passed the battery stage. The cycle of battery in any home cannot be ignored as it will also affect the kind of people we create in the society. It reminded me of my battered journalist whose father was a cruel Muslim who'd not let his child go to school being tasked to look after the battered wife and younger siblings. The hope to believe that a better life is still a chance is one that may not only touch the lives of those battered today but those who lives the same cycle. I truly love Ricky Davao's choices of movies as it reflects the kind of thoughts he'd believe he can easily internalize as an actor. He deserves more recognition more than the trophies the award giving bodies had granted but the academe should one day acknowledge his efforts to provide more quality Filipino films if not in the mainstream. I seldom have chances to watch indie films as it would take so much effort to look for the far theatres with schedules not friendly to mine but this wonderful opportunity given by the GADRC , the Division of City Schools and Direk Ellen Ongkeko-Marfil was one awakening experience. The saviour in the character of Ariel who taught the battered child, Onyok violin and made difficult efforts to learn the mute abused child's language through music and compassion truly gave hope to the child and to all of us who watched the movie that violin (though an expensive elite musical instrument played by the rich) can be learned by someone like Onyok. His considerations and struggles to communicate to Onyok should be a role model to all teachers who work to get salaries and not its basic purpose which is to teach and touch lives of people. May all Filipinos and all people all over the world get to watch "Boses" and learn the value of individual differences. The silent can teach the loud after all, God gave us two ears and one mouth so we may listen twice as we speak......Hear the voice in "Boses" and your lives may change!